Oh, you don't have any? Hmmm. You probably won't be hired. Everyone has some and to overcome this, it's all about how you position your answer. Most people assume that the following answers will usually do the trick:
So the question arises - how do you share a weakness honestly without ruining your chances for the position?
It would never be wise to lie. Likewise, it would never be wise to flat out say that you often come in late, can't get your work done in a timely or correct way, can't get along with others, etc. That's career suicide. Thus, the trick is to take these types of negatives and to turn them into positives. For example, if you're chronically late and it was due to a situation that no longer exists, then you tell the story that way - "My (fill in the blank) was sick with a very severe illness and this often caused me to be late. I'm pleased to report that (s/he) is now better, and all of those issues are now fully resolved".
Or, "I mistreated a customer once and I'll never forget it. I realized later that it was a bad experience for everyone, and I recognized it as a weakness of mine [whatever the mistreatment was] and so I've taken a course on customer service to help me be better prepared to deal with that type of situation again". That shows initiative and class, and that you learned something and overcame an obstacle.
Honesty didn't hurt you; it likely helped you. Significantly. People want to hire people who they trust, and someone who is self-aware and who take responsibility for their own actions is usually someone who can be trusted.
- I'm a perfectionist
- I'm reliable/dependable to a fault, even when I'm sick
- I take care of the customer/client, even when I may have to bend some rules
- I know this is a writing job, but I hate writing and am not very good at it
So the question arises - how do you share a weakness honestly without ruining your chances for the position?
It would never be wise to lie. Likewise, it would never be wise to flat out say that you often come in late, can't get your work done in a timely or correct way, can't get along with others, etc. That's career suicide. Thus, the trick is to take these types of negatives and to turn them into positives. For example, if you're chronically late and it was due to a situation that no longer exists, then you tell the story that way - "My (fill in the blank) was sick with a very severe illness and this often caused me to be late. I'm pleased to report that (s/he) is now better, and all of those issues are now fully resolved".
Or, "I mistreated a customer once and I'll never forget it. I realized later that it was a bad experience for everyone, and I recognized it as a weakness of mine [whatever the mistreatment was] and so I've taken a course on customer service to help me be better prepared to deal with that type of situation again". That shows initiative and class, and that you learned something and overcame an obstacle.
Honesty didn't hurt you; it likely helped you. Significantly. People want to hire people who they trust, and someone who is self-aware and who take responsibility for their own actions is usually someone who can be trusted.
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